Some Days I Wake Up Grumpy, Other Days I Let Her Sleep

Well she's travelling again, this time it's back to Connecticut to visit our Grandson Sean and she said she is also on a mission. Here we go again. She wants to look for a place to spend her summers in the state that she hated for twelve years. While we lived there she belonged to a support group that consisted of other women who also hated Connecticut. Outside of two daughters and one niece there is NO ONE else. Her one and only Connecticut friend, Lorraine, lives in Stamford but has a house in Spring Lake, NJ that she stays at 5 days a week in the winter and seven days a week in the summer. I hear "The Madge" talking to other people saying "Let's get together". These people DO NOT live in CT and SHE will be getting together with them????? Her car is almost three years old and she has 5100 miles on it. She is afraid to drive on freeways, turnpikes, highways or toll roads. I am sorry, but the only way to get to Long Island is using one of those type of roads. Oh well. I will let her go out with some real estate agents if she really wants to BUT she is not to buy anything without talking to me. The house we live in now "The Madge" bought without me and it took me almost six months before I set foot in it. This will not happen again ( I Hope). I can see it now, the house "The Madge" will look at is below and the one I am thinking about is right under it.

"The Madge's choice"

What's realistic